3 Major Fears About Boudoir ( And Why You Shouldn't Worry About Them! )
Interested in boudoir, but have some fears? Let’s us put you at ease!
Many women have fears about boudoir photography when trying to decide whether or not to book a session.
These fears are very common and unfortunately, cause many women to miss out on this amazing
experience. One of the things boudoir photographers hear most from boudoir clients after all is said and
done is, “Every woman should experience this at least once in their lifetime!” They also get many repeat
clients because after their first session, they have put those fears and concerns to rest.
Let’s look at some of the most common concerns that I hear from girls who feel a little skeptical and let’s
put those fears to rest!
Boudoir Concern #1 “I am not comfortable with my flaws.”
Let’s face it, we all have flaws! Not a single one of us is perfect. There is no such thing as too heavy, too
thin, too pale, too dark, too many stretch marks, etc. Our flaws are what makes us unique.
And you are ALL equally beautiful! I have flaws myself, and I can assure that I am that last one to judge any female
for anything they see as a flaw. I see you as a strong badass woman who is gorgeous in her own way. I
see you as a client therefore, I will go above and beyond to listen to you and help guide you the whole
process while focusing on your best assets.
Boudoir Concern #2 “I won’t know how to pose properly.”
Listen up ladies! As a professional boudoir photographer, I do my research. You do not need to know
how to pose, it’s my job to pose you! I will direct you through the whole process all the way down to the
way you tilt your head and where to place your hand. I will actually demonstrate the poses with you and
physically move your hands, arms, legs, etc. if needed. It is a team effort and we are in this together. All
you need to do is show up and let me handle the rest.
You may come into the session feeling a little stiff
and awkward but, gradually you will become more and more comfortable with each pose. You do not
need to be a professional model to have a boudoir session!
Boudoir Concern #3 “I’m afraid I won’t like the photos of myself.”
This concern usually stems from the above two concerns. Being afraid that your flaws and inability to
know how to properly pose will ruin your images. No one wants to look awkward, uncomfortable, or
have their flaws put on display and captured on camera. I take great pride in my services and work. I
want you to look beautiful and FEEL beautiful when you see your photos!
I want you to be satisfied and
enjoy your experience. And that’s why I will work tentatively with you to make sure we get the perfect
poses and expressions that highlight everything beautiful about you!
A boudoir session is such a wonderful experience! They allow you to see yourself in a way that maybe
you refuse to yourself, which is beautiful, sensual and just plain awesome! I want my clients to be
pleased and blown away when they see their images and be proud that they decided to go through with
it. Please do not let these common fears and concerns from having this experience yourself.
NOT regret it!
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